A piece of your stage?

A great way to get out there if we are humble enough is to be the “supporting act” for someone else for a while. It also hones our skills, gives us community, puts us in front of an audience that we could never pull together, and so much more. I think that you might just get sick of me using the word “collaboration” but honestly, it is my strategy number one. I need people to support me, help me build a stage and draw in an audience. I need them to proofread, be honest with me, a shoulder to cry on, and someone to celebrate with. If I want all that from people, then I need to be that for a bunch of other people first.

And to be honest, it is kinda cool seeing my stuff out there on a different stage! Last week I started a series guest blogging on the Site “Surviving my Past”. It is a stage way bigger than mine and I truly respect the guy who runs it. He is truly amazing. I am not stupid, I know that I will never have a stage like his, and it is an honour to be invited! We are different people doing different things. I want to write books and will never blog at his level. He is a pro at blogging (but is also writing books), but the point that I am making is that spending time on his stage is an honour and a privilege and it not only helps us both out in the ways mentioned above but it is fun!

Check out my post HERE. You will hopefully still see that it is me, my voice, but it looks quite different and appeals to a different audience to my own.

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“Here she comes, running, out of prison and off the pedestal: chains off, crown off, halo off, just a live woman.”  ― Charlotte Perkins Gilman

Anxiety Champions Part 1:

screen-shot-2017-01-06-at-12-06-18-pmToday I am starting a series on Anxiety Champions. What on earth are those I hear you ask? For me, they are people who put their anxiety out there. Some are winning hands down, many are still fighting hard, some have even simply said, “you know what, I am just going to live my life with this anyway!”.

But what makes them unique in my eyes is that they put themselves out there, and they are not afraid to talk about it. If you know anything about me by now then you would know that I am all about #BeingTransparent, and #BeingReal. I love honesty, I am on the truth side of the spectrum (while learning to have an equal measure of Grace along the way), and I believe deeply in building community in order to make a safe and fertile environment for anyone to heal.

Writing for me is about sharing my voice, but there is no point in me using it if I don’t have a community to hear me, challenge me or grow me. Anxiety is my hot topic right now because of my book, but I would be remiss if I did not mention that there are many out there who are fighting their own battles as well and that many of them are real champions.

Today’s Anxiety Champion is Matt Pappas from Surviving My Past. If you follow me on Twitter you would know that I often tweet his posts, and in theory, I am going to be guest blogging on his site a bit this year (but too afraid to start, because he does his so well!). And … he has so generously and kindly written the Foreword of my book on Anxiety which hits Kindle Stores this weekend. I feel so honored to be connected to such a true and vulnerable human being.

His blogs and writings are so real, so candid, and if you want to know what it is like both living and healing from anxiety, trauma, PTSD and so on, then this is your man. He works hard at sharing his journey and he isn’t afraid every now and then to stand back and say that he is struggling a bit and to take a break from his on-line community. I often open my Twitter to find a tweet of someone cheering him on. And they cheer him on because they love him. He inspires them and he is so very generous with his wisdom, guidance, and deep and honest opinion.

Matt cuts no corners, dresses up nothing, … he simply puts his battle with anxiety out there and I feel encouraged just knowing that I am not alone. Thank you, Matt!

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